In numerology, November is a 2-vibration month.
The major themes for the number 2 are: Relationships, Perspectives, Balance, Patience, Duality, Polarity, Partnerships, Collaboration, Cooperation, and Compromise, especially to create win-win scenarios.
Because November is the 11th month, it carries an undercurrent of the 11-vibration operating behind the scenes. The 11 is the “creative visionary” master number and brings Creativity, Vision, Justice, Confidence, and Diplomacy to the mix.
My guides tell me that the primary theme for November is relationships, with the focus on reclaiming or strengthening your relationship with yourself.
The relationship you have with yourself is the most important relationship in your life, as it sets the tone for all your other relationships.
For example:
- If you neglect your needs, others mirror that back to you, instead of jumping in to help you.
- If you always put everyone else first, not only do you train others to expect that, but it never gets to be your turn.
- If you diminish your value or abilities, others treat you as less than them.
- If you are constantly judging yourself harshly, others may judge you harshly as well.
- If you treat yourself with respect, others will treat you that way too.
- If you like, accept, and value yourself, you won’t stand for people treating you as inferior in any way. And you will find people start acknowledging you.
"You will be with you longer than anyone else on the planet,
so make it a good relationship."
~ Louise Hay
Relationships have been a theme all year, and actually, this entire decade of the 2020s, due to the number of twos in the dates. The total number vibration for the year sets the tone for the relationship area highlighted. 2025 is a 9-vibration year, which highlights the relationships that need reevaluation, aren't working well, and the areas where you need to reclaim yourself and what is important to you in all your relationships.
“A great relationship is not something that happens to you.
It is something you choose.”
~ Alan Cohen
In addition to identifying areas where you could improve your relationship with yourself, the 9-vibration of 2025 is influencing November’s energy to help you get clear on what relationships are working well for you, what relationships could use a bit of an upgrade or makeover, and which relationships have run their course and you would be best served by letting them go.
November is a tricky time for relationships because of the holiday season and the stress that family can trigger.
The seasonal changes that prompt us to slow down and go within can also affect relationships.
Of course, most of us can’t live by the seasons because of the demands of the industrialized world.
That doesn’t mean our natural connection to Earth and her changes no longer affects us.
It does.
Most people fight it because the current infrastructure and conditioning in this world expect you to be productive, or at least keep busy.
Yet our Spirit calls for retreat, reflection, and renewal, especially at this time of year.
The 2-vibration may help you find a compromise here.
Please make time to be with yourself.
Even for 10 minutes a day. More if you can swing it.
You can use this time to reconnect with yourself and what you want, what you are doing, and where you’d like to be in the next couple of years.
Determine what really matters. Say no to the things that really don’t matter.
"Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart.
Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens."
~ Carl Jung
This is the final push from the 9-vibration of 2025, nudging you to clean up the clutter, let go of what no longer serves your best future, and reconnect with who you really are under all the roles you play and shoulds you labor under.
Another key element of the 2-vibration is perspective…
Seeing things from a different perspective and being open to allowing multiple perspectives without judging them as right or wrong, good or bad. (The shadow of the 2 brings in that level of judgment polarity.)
Whenever we are rigid in our perspective or point of view, we are blind to possibilities that exist beyond our preconceptions.
Trust me on this, there are way more possibilities than you can imagine.
Why limit your options?
"Change your thoughts and you change your world."
~ Norman Vincent Peale
The third element of the 2-vibration spotlighted this month is balance.
With the crazy energy on the planet and the stress of the holiday season, connecting to and cultivating your inner balance will be a blessing for you.
Center and ground yourself every day.
If you don’t know how, here’s a link to a blog post I wrote on it years ago, Grounding and Protecting Your Energy.
The simplest way to ground yourself is to stand barefoot on the earth (grass, sand, dirt, rock, or in water).
However, you can effectively ground your energy anywhere at any time without having to run out of a building and hug a tree.
Why?
Because you are grounding your energy, and energy can move through just about anything.
The important thing is intent.
Intend to ground your energy and body to the Earth, then imagine energy flowing down your spine, out your feet, and down into the Earth. You can visualize having roots going into the Earth if that helps. It isn’t necessary, though.
Then send all the denser energy (emotions, thoughts, feelings) down into the Earth to be transmuted. You may yawn as you do this process, which is also a sign of the energy moving out. Then thank the Earth for transmuting the energy!
And then draw up Earth energy into your body to complete the grounding. You can say something like "I draw Earth energy into my body to ground, center, and balance me."
You just have to think it, or imagine it, or say the words. It really is that simple.
A phrase I often use when grounding my energy is “Everything that is not mine that I picked up from anyone, anything, any place, any time, and any lifetime. I now return it to wherever I got it from.” As that energy leaves me, I feel lighter.
What is implied in this statement is any thoughts, judgements, projections, emotions, and so on that I picked up throughout my day and didn’t originate with me; therefore, they are not mine, and I let them go.
You can think of your energy field like a giant “lint” collector that picks up assorted energies coming from other people, places, and things as you go about your day.
I do this "release-and-return process" daily if I’ve been outside, especially if I’ve been on the road or in a store. Otherwise, I do it every couple of days.
Cosmic Updates
We had a full supermoon on November 5, in the sign of Taurus.
Full moons are a time of completion and letting go, much like all of 2025. The moon in Taurus emphasized a need for comfort and a focus on practical matters like finances, relationships, comfort, stability, and nourishment in life. Focus on peace, love, stability, and self-worth.
Mercury Retrograde began on November 9 and will be in effect through November 28. Start nothing new.
Remember that communication requires extra care, schedules may change unexpectedly, and technology may be glitchy.
Mercury goes direct on Nov 29, but the Post Mercury Retrograde Shadow continues from Nov. 30 to Dec. 16, which may impact holiday shopping, travel, and plans.
If you’d like a refresher, here's my blog post on what to do and what not to do during a Mercury Retrograde (it applies to all Mercury Retrogrades, no matter when they occur).
The New Moon this month is on November 19th in Scorpio. This is a deep emotional moon, encouraging self-discovery and transformation. Be willing to delve into your feelings.
“The tension you feel between yourself and another person reflects the tension you feel within yourself.
Heal your inner tension, and your relationship will resolve.”
~ Alan Cohen
If you’re dealing with changes in your life, career, or relationships, feeling stuck, overwhelmed, stressed, or simply curious about what 2026 and the rest of 2025 have in store, I’d love to support you.
A private session might provide the clarity, insight, answers, direction, and validation you’re seeking. I invite you to explore the ways I can support you with an intuitive, numerology, or past life consultation.
If you would like to know what next year may have in store for you, I invite you to schedule a 2026 Annual Numerology Forecast (available as either a 30-minute or 60-minute session).
Bottom Line
The energy on the planet is still pretty intense. I think it may be the new normal.
In addition to improving your relationship with yourself, this month’s energy urges you to find your own inner balance.
Center and ground yourself. Let the energy of the outside world flow around you like water flows around the rocks in a stream.
December will be more focused on your relationship with your body, senses, feelings, and creativity. I’ll explore more about that next month.
Meanwhile, enjoy the crispness of Autumn, celebrate your personal harvest (all you’ve accomplished this year), and have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Overflowing with gratitude for you!
With love and appreciation for you,
