I was in a p
issy mood this morning, so I began questioning it... what was really going on.
And realized that I was still resisting stepping out and doing the thing I keep pushing aside for "later.... maybe later, maybe who knows" LOL.
Perhaps you are doing something similar and waiting for someone or something to either do it for you or tell you what to do...
or even say, "Hey, you don't have to if you don't want to."
Get clear about it and make a decision.
If you want it, go for it, no more excuses. You'll never be ready, so just do it.
If you don't want to do/have it, tell yourself that you changed your mind and let it go. Cross it off your "to-do someday maybe" list.
If you never really wanted it, but thought you should because someone else said you should (or trillions of other reasons), then let it go. Press delete. Give yourself permission to let it go.
If you need permission to do this, then here it is... I give you permission to choose what you want and don't want. I give you permission to be unapologetically YOU!
"The thing that you are doing or not doing in order to keep you feeling safe is the thing that is keeping you stuck."
- Karen M Winkelman
Unresolved issues and things you're leaving in limbo because you can't make a decision cost you.
They drain energy from you.
I think resistance and avoidance may be more exhausting than physical efforts with way less benefits!
Decide.
Choose.
with deep appreciation for you,
PS. If you'd like assistance in getting unstuck, I invite you to schedule a session with me.